Oscar-winning composer and musician AR Rahman has for the first time spoken openly about the personal pressures, the cost of fame, and the struggles of living a normal life. Despite his global fame, Rahman reveals that behind the glamour of his career lies a reality of personal sacrifice, silence, and discomfort that most people fail to see.
Rahman, famous for his music in the hit film Slumdog Millionaire, spent 29 years of his life with his wife, Saira Banu. However, last year, they suddenly announced their separation. Neither Rahman nor Saira revealed the exact reasons for their split at the time, but Saira has made it clear that, despite the end of their marriage, her respect for Rahman remains undiminished.
In a recent interview, Rahman candidly shared how living in Chennai and dealing with fame has altered the course of his life. “Chennai and fame — both have changed my life,” he said. He explained that while fame brought him popularity, it also took away his freedom to live a private life. “I could have easily moved abroad, but I’ve never left Chennai. The love from the people here is overwhelming, but it also means I’ve lost my personal space,” Rahman added.
When discussing the impact of fame on his personal moments, Rahman said, “I hardly go out anymore. If I do, I’m bombarded with requests for photos. Even when I’m travelling, people don’t understand. It doesn’t matter whether I’m at the airport or on the road — people are always asking for pictures.”
The renowned musician further stated, “Even at weddings, it’s the same scene. I might be sitting down to eat, and suddenly, people rush over to take a picture. It doesn’t matter if I ask them to stop. For them, that photo is very important. That’s why I no longer attend weddings just to eat.”
Rahman also pointed out the contrast between his experiences in India and abroad. “Overseas, people respect your personal space. No one disturbs you the way they do here,” he said. However, despite the challenges fame brings, Rahman has never considered leaving India. “I’ve always stayed here and worked here. My connection to my roots is too strong to leave,” he concluded.